Meaning that if you want something in this life,,,,, the chances of it resting right beside your foot are rare, close to nil or none… if you want something in this life, you have to do something to create an action.. in order to get it…

Let’s look at your options… 

A… Stay home and do nothing and let the world fall down around you and drag your children down into the hell it creates.

B…  Do something……

If you choose B….. you have two options…..

A… Go To Dover….

B… Not Go To Dover…..

If you choose A….. you have two options…….

A…  Get everything out of the experience that you can…..

B…. Complain the whole time and learn nothing…..

if you choose A…… you have two options…..

Finally if the whole world collapses and goes to hell, you will have two options….

A… At least it is not my fault… When called to action… I did something…..

B… This is all my fault… I was called and brushed it off……..